The case of Rihanna with her former boyfriend Chris Brown is a lesson for every girl. You can’t tear a girl into pieces and expect her to be herself. Her courage is what every girl must emulate. Although there’s rumor that she only acted on the way she did because the police actually saw what was going on behind her and Chris’ door. If the police hadn’t gotten involved she would have covered her bruises with makeup and continued on.Anywhere is not time to argue. At least Chris, her former boyfriend was sentenced to five years probation and community services in August and has publicly apologized. Her courage alone is what matters. Especially for girls who’ll not tell anybody that their boyfriends beat them up. Those who’ll cover everything even when they’re wounded both physically and emotionally. Those who’ll rather suffer in silence and consider such abuse a big secret.I know Rihanna is a celebrity, but what she passed through is peculiar to every woman and girl. Abuse is common in relationships. And, girls must be tough with love to overcome abuse.Being tough with love doesn’t mean you should be strict with your guy no! It simply means that those real instances of abuse that threatens relationships must be noticed and promptly deal with within the context of love. It’s common to see girls who’re carried away by love. They take “shits” from guys all in the name of love. Most guys take advantage of the so-called love. They’ll deliberately cheat on you, snap or command you around before their friends. If you don’t quickly deal with those minor abuses, they’ll one day use their fist on you at the slightest disagreement. And turn you to foot mat where he dusts his feet.Also, some girls have lost their hard earned self-respect and dignity .Due to economic pressure they transferred their financial burdens to their lovers. There’s nothing wrong asking your guy for money its okay. But once he finds out that, you depend solely on him for money. He may take your love for granted. He’ll now feel your love is bought over with money. He’ll believe he who pays commands and should dominate the relationship and becomes Mr. Right. Even when you’re abused, he believes you can’t do anything. Your guy takes advantage of you especially when they’re broke and try to reconcile with him.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Romance Depends Only on Smell.
Unpleasant smell or body odor makes you develop inferiority complex and stops you from getting your desired relationships. The surprising thing about it is that, people with bad breath don’t notice it they’re used to it. Most body odor is developed from the kind of perfumes and fragrance people wear. People wear more than one perfume just to smell fine, but end up driving people away by sending out bad breathe.
Human beings are led by sense of smell especially in relationships. There was this beautiful and cheerful girl during our secondary school days (SS1 to be precise).She had body odor. Nobody could tell the source of the bad breathe, because from her look, she exhibited good personal hygiene. People gave flimsy excuses just to stay away from her. At a point, she began to feel less human. Nobody was ready to associate with her. Till when a young man of 40 years wooed her, she could believe that she’s really beautiful. She was so happy and lavished the man with love she’s has been holding back for some time. The man finally impregnated her and pressurized her into early marriage.
Good smell is as important as the emotional factors in relationships. It has a great psychological advantage on partners. For example, if a man values a woman and maintain good personal hygiene before meeting her. The woman will also reciprocate it, and believes she’s important for the man by doing same. A person with offensive body adore makes you feel very uncomfortable and even angry. You do anything to avoid such people. Anytime you smell of bad odor, you countenance change. You automatically develop wrinkles while searching around for the source of the smell. You may even vomit if you eventually swallow saliva during the bad odor. Pleasant smell brings comfort and encourages cordial relationship. Once you’re in contact with a person that smells fine. You feel happy and beams with smile while the person quickly responds back with a smile. By so doing, the needed conducive atmosphere is being created for love play or relationship to start.
Anytime sexual intercourse takes place with a partner that omits bad smell. The anger or the effect lingers on. Women in particular are likely to feel used and abused and will never submit to sex again. One of my counselees who sought for a divorce’s advice once told me, that she’s lost interest in her marriage. From the very day she was disgust by her husband’s mouth odor during love making, she lost interest in sex. The husband had been afraid of the dentist’s advice on tooth extraction and neglected his oral hygiene.
Unfortunately, most men think that, once their wives are sexually satisfied nothing else remains. While some wives assume that’s their primary duty are for them to be sexually submissive to their husbands.
Human beings are led by sense of smell especially in relationships. There was this beautiful and cheerful girl during our secondary school days (SS1 to be precise).She had body odor. Nobody could tell the source of the bad breathe, because from her look, she exhibited good personal hygiene. People gave flimsy excuses just to stay away from her. At a point, she began to feel less human. Nobody was ready to associate with her. Till when a young man of 40 years wooed her, she could believe that she’s really beautiful. She was so happy and lavished the man with love she’s has been holding back for some time. The man finally impregnated her and pressurized her into early marriage.
Good smell is as important as the emotional factors in relationships. It has a great psychological advantage on partners. For example, if a man values a woman and maintain good personal hygiene before meeting her. The woman will also reciprocate it, and believes she’s important for the man by doing same. A person with offensive body adore makes you feel very uncomfortable and even angry. You do anything to avoid such people. Anytime you smell of bad odor, you countenance change. You automatically develop wrinkles while searching around for the source of the smell. You may even vomit if you eventually swallow saliva during the bad odor. Pleasant smell brings comfort and encourages cordial relationship. Once you’re in contact with a person that smells fine. You feel happy and beams with smile while the person quickly responds back with a smile. By so doing, the needed conducive atmosphere is being created for love play or relationship to start.
Anytime sexual intercourse takes place with a partner that omits bad smell. The anger or the effect lingers on. Women in particular are likely to feel used and abused and will never submit to sex again. One of my counselees who sought for a divorce’s advice once told me, that she’s lost interest in her marriage. From the very day she was disgust by her husband’s mouth odor during love making, she lost interest in sex. The husband had been afraid of the dentist’s advice on tooth extraction and neglected his oral hygiene.
Unfortunately, most men think that, once their wives are sexually satisfied nothing else remains. While some wives assume that’s their primary duty are for them to be sexually submissive to their husbands.
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