Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Romance Depends Only on Smell.

Unpleasant smell or body odor makes you develop inferiority complex and stops you from getting your desired relationships. The surprising thing about it is that, people with bad breath don’t notice it they’re used to it. Most body odor is developed from the kind of perfumes and fragrance people wear. People wear more than one perfume just to smell fine, but end up driving people away by sending out bad breathe.
Human beings are led by sense of smell especially in relationships. There was this beautiful and cheerful girl during our secondary school days (SS1 to be precise).She had body odor. Nobody could tell the source of the bad breathe, because from her look, she exhibited good personal hygiene. People gave flimsy excuses just to stay away from her. At a point, she began to feel less human. Nobody was ready to associate with her. Till when a young man of 40 years wooed her, she could believe that she’s really beautiful. She was so happy and lavished the man with love she’s has been holding back for some time. The man finally impregnated her and pressurized her into early marriage.
Good smell is as important as the emotional factors in relationships. It has a great psychological advantage on partners. For example, if a man values a woman and maintain good personal hygiene before meeting her. The woman will also reciprocate it, and believes she’s important for the man by doing same. A person with offensive body adore makes you feel very uncomfortable and even angry. You do anything to avoid such people. Anytime you smell of bad odor, you countenance change. You automatically develop wrinkles while searching around for the source of the smell. You may even vomit if you eventually swallow saliva during the bad odor. Pleasant smell brings comfort and encourages cordial relationship. Once you’re in contact with a person that smells fine. You feel happy and beams with smile while the person quickly responds back with a smile. By so doing, the needed conducive atmosphere is being created for love play or relationship to start.
Anytime sexual intercourse takes place with a partner that omits bad smell. The anger or the effect lingers on. Women in particular are likely to feel used and abused and will never submit to sex again. One of my counselees who sought for a divorce’s advice once told me, that she’s lost interest in her marriage. From the very day she was disgust by her husband’s mouth odor during love making, she lost interest in sex. The husband had been afraid of the dentist’s advice on tooth extraction and neglected his oral hygiene.
Unfortunately, most men think that, once their wives are sexually satisfied nothing else remains. While some wives assume that’s their primary duty are for them to be sexually submissive to their husbands.

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