Wednesday, September 30, 2009

5 Reasons Why Nigerian Men Cheat On Their Wives.

Lots of Interest.

Most men don’t have the intention of cheating on their wives, but they still found themselves flirting. Because, men have one behavior in common, they enjoy being desired by many women.And, they can easily lost interest in their wives. Since romantic feelings changes anytime.
And, they need their wives to stand by them to share and understand secrets feelings together. And also avoid unfaithfulness. Because, marriage is renewed by sharingfeelings together. But, most wives don’t converse with their husbands beyond the daily activities.

Nagging.

If the husband is being snatched by another woman. The man would gradually become non-communicative. He may also increase his evening outings just to meet his newly found love
When the wife discovers her husband’s cheats. She may nag and quarrels over minor issues. But, nagging can’t change the husband, instead will make him avoid the wife.

Foot Mat

When nagging fails, she may resort to begging and weeping .And; promise to be a better lover. Unfortunately, the wife would lose her hard earned dignity .Because, no wife has ever begged and wept for his husband to marry her. So, the husband would turn her into foot mat where he cleans his feet. Or, sex toy, he uses and abandons to stay with the other woman.
Third Party.

Most Nigerian wives would reveal the embarrassing truth to their pastorsand demand prayers. Or, gossip with friends. Or, report it to their family members.
This may result into wife battering. Because, once the position of a man in the family is being disgraced, HE may use his fist to resolve the differences. And, still continue cheating on the wife.

Dialogue

This remains me of an old adage that says,’ No matter how tall an okro plant is, it can still be ploughed by the owner’’.It simply means, no matter how much a husband cheats on his wife. The wife can still bring him down in bed. Because, she understands him more than any other person .And, knows how to sweep him into ecstasy-remembering those rosy days where they displayed love in public.

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