Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Why Most Celebrities Can't Succeed in Marraige

People now wonder whether anything is wrong with celebrities' marriage. No day passes without the news of one failed marriage involving one notable celebrity. The rate at which their marriages break down is disturbing.
Unlike other unions or institutions where knowledgeable people or experts do very well. Marriage is the only institution where people who aren't not specialist succeed. From roughly estimation, people with tremendous achievement often don't succeed in marriage. While the more average a person is, the more likely he is to succeed in marriage. Although marriage partners must not be totally the same. Where the average and successful partners marry, the successful one should support the average partner. Since marriage is all about serving. The superior or successful partner must serve the weaker one to protect his dignity.
In celebrities' marriage, husbands and wives don't always succeed in the same speed. The differences of their achievements should be appreciated. For example, a man can be a great intellectual success and marries a woman who's more successful and famous in life. Such marriage can only be in danger when the two partners don't appreciate their different qualities.
Celebrities', who're married must, understood what the other partner does. And also be interested in those things as they can even revealed ones lack of talent and, or help to improve. It can be intellect, artistic ability or the ability to socialize with other people.
It's reportedly said that men lack confidence to manage successful women. But I disagree with that! Lack of confidence is only a symptom of unhealthy marriage. Anybody can lose confidence when a partner becomes superior or dominating. Incompatibility of couple remains the notable thing that brings lack of confidence. From the statement of a female celebrity who's a victim of divorce, she said;"My five-year-old marriage broke down due to irreconcilable difference. This incompatibility led us to disagree on many issues".
Compatible of couple can't be overemphasized. Gone are those days when celebrities unite and marry for the common interest they have in career or jobs. Today, the common interest goes beyond vocational level. Married men now expect their wives to stand by them in every area of their life. Apart from the image of the good family father. But also as partners in their endeavors.
By so doing couple would be connected with the strange powers of the mind that can’t be explained by natural law. Because marriage is a melting pot of every possible feelings that influences ones behavior both known and unknown. It’s more of a living and changing system which its unity and purpose can be understood appreciated from one condition to another!

1 comment:

Luchi said...

celebrities mostly have marriage break-ups cos more money means more freedom, more comfort.so they don't want to have the patience to thrive through that marriage bondage.