Wife Battering is How a Husband Perceives His Wife

It's well a known fact that, a loving and caring couple will always respect and cherish each other. There can never be a room for snapping, let alone fight .What could be on the mind of a man who uses fist to settle differences with his wife at the slightest provocation. Could it be that he is fade up with the marriage? A lot of articles, seminars, and marriage counselors have concluded that the lust for the forbidden fruit is always instrumental to the cause of such demeaning thing.
Whatever is the cause, physical attack has never made any wife more loving or caring. You can't tear a wife to pieces and expect her to meet your emotional needs. It will be better for couples to avoid the worn-out accusation and complaints that trigger off crisis.
But the irony of the situation is, most wives would never admit that they have been battered. Even those with bodily harm. These remains me of the popular adage that says;"Marital problems are best resolved in bed". This means ,couple can resolve wife- battering without taking legal action. Many of such cases have come and disappeared without the intervention of the third party. Many people who intervened in such cases are perceived as enemies when the case is finally resolved.
Before a husband starts to physically attack his wife or commit any other "marital blunder", something fundamental has changed in the marriage. When the partners were in their rosy days; they displayed love in public, because. They had something unique which they must show to the world. And, those proof quickly disappear during wife battering.
That feeling that pushes a man to fight is accumulated anger which he ignored or buried alive in his subconscious. It's not always noticeable. But can always turn out to become grudges and hatred towards the wife if unexpressed.
One top of that, we are in a society where men are regarded as “Mr. Right”. Even most parents displayed it the family circle. Their male children grow up with the unrealistic ideas and practice it in marriage. They simply believe that being severe to their wives is aimed at producing a well-disciplined wife. And justify their rage emotional bursts in the name of wife- battering. When the outburst finally becomes the pattern of parental conduct, their children –especially the male ones may copy it and go along with it for the rest of their life.