Why Sex is Dangerous to Relationships.

Sex has destroyed many relationships. Due to the current strong sexual desire in our society today. People imitate those pleasants and imaginary situations that are unlikely to happen, from intercourse movies, sexual literatures, role models, and practice them in the real world.
People with this kind of erotic desire or infatuation always betray their partners during the bad days of sex. They’re so impatience to wait during menstruation and illness period. Or, walk out of the relationship when someone they considered to be lovelier is found.
Even though sex is desirous by human beings, people should be careful when a partner’s sex life isn’t disciplined. Such desire would quickly fade away. Partners must first of all become good friends that have at least, two to three leisure activities that bring them together to get both emotional and physical satisfaction. Not only sex!
A friend of mine married his girl friend because she satisfies and drives him into ecstasy in bed.They had nothing in common .They can’t converse beyond the daily activities of life. The wife is too quite, jealous and prone to fight. While the man is open-minded and workaholic.Because of their passionate love, they’ve always resolved their differences by having intercourse.
At a point, their differences began to show off; when their only common interest, sex relation was temporally off .During child birth and nursing period, they criticized each other and hardly agreed on anything. The wife complained and accused the husband of flirt whenever he comes home late. The more she criticized him, the more time he spent with his friends and co-workers outside. The man also became disturbed of her jealous attitude and refusal to welcome visitors-especially the female ones. He even thought of treating her psychiatrically because of her steady nagging and quarrel over minor issues.
Their marital differences bothered him occasionally and he began to reveal things he had kept secret. He revealed; ’’I had always known my wife isn’t compatible with me, but I couldn’t give her up because she turned me on sexually. Even though we still get along very great in bed. But we have nothing in common to keep the marriage going. If I had known earlier what it takes to make a healthy marriage perhaps I would have stopped this in time’’.
Great care is required when partners don’t agree over certain issues like leisure activities, career, or the same philosophy of life.It’s assumed that two people who love each other are interested to the same level in physical love. The level of compatibility of partners can be proofed in social contract with other people. For example, anytime one of the partners isn’t comfortable and relaxed-while the other partner is comfortable and happy in same environment. The reason for such different in behavior must be put straight.Partners who're poor in relating to each other can't succeed in relationships.